Full-time Live-In Domestic Couple

Full-time Live-In Domestic Couple

17 Nov 2025
New York, Hudson valley 00000 Hudson valley USA

Full-time Live-In Domestic Couple

Job Title: Full-Time Live-In Domestic Couple (Facilities/Houseman and Executive Housekeeper)

Reporting to: The Principals

Start: ASAP

Location: Rhinebeck, NY

Hours: Core hours: Thursday through Monday, 50-60 hours per week when the family is in-residence; otherwise, 5-days, 40 hours per week; must be flexible on hours, particularly when the family is in-residence, and flexible to work during the holidays if needed

Salary: $150k-$200k, DOE, plus room and board; annual cost-of-living increase in salary

Benefits: Medical, dental, vision, and retirement plan options; PTO (to be taken when the family is not in-residence), sick days, and main federal holidays (although must be flexible if needed)

The Family: The principal, his husband, 16-year-old son, and an 18-year-old daughter who lives primarily in Texas

The House: Large estate in Rhinebeck, NY, sits on 110 acres; the family resides at this estate during the summer months and typically spends weekends and holidays here during the winter season

The Staff: A property manager, driver that works weekdays, two helpers who go once or twice a week to do heavy cleaning and some laundry, and a groundskeeper

Pets: Two dogs

Other Homes: NYC and London (no travel required for this role as other locations are staffed)

Accommodation: An attached one-bedroom apartment (fully furnished, though the couple is welcome to bring their own personal furnishings if desired)

Key Responsibilities

Please find your primary responsibilities outlined below:

Please note the below list is not exhaustive.

Facilities/Houseman Role

Day to Day Management

General day to day checking of the property and grounds to ensure all is in good working order

Conduct all required seasonal maintenance and as needed (e.g. winterizing the home, assuring fuel supply is met for winter heating, shovelling snow, etc.)

Report and major issues/repairs to the Property Manager, to outsource vendors as needed

Oversee suppliers, contractors and various appointments as needed

Assist with landscaping projects, including general grounds maintenance, planting, seasonal upkeep, and ensuring outdoor spaces remain tidy, organized, and well-presented

Where possible perform basic electrical, plumbing, mechanical, and heating and air conditioning work as well as some carpentry work. Both as preventative and reparative.

Good knowledge of the various electronic and household systems – HVAC, generators, etc.

Oversight of all deliveries and general maintenance of the residence; making the family office aware of any necessary repairs or purchases that are beyond the scope of the household staff

Monitoring the progress of projects, to ensure that they are being prioritised in accordance with the principal’s wishes and that outcomes are being reached in a satisfactory time scale and to the standard expected

Ensuring the property are maintained at all times

Ensuring the property is ‘guest ready’ as required, to include; checking that all equipment is working, undertaking walk throughs as necessary and keeping the household fully stocked with necessary supplies at all times

Cars

Maintaining the cars – keeping on top of services, maintenance, repairs, and keeping fueled

Managing and assuring insurances and registrations are current

Executive Housekeeper Role

Household Cleaning

Ensuring all aspects of the property, interiors as well as exteriors, are maintained and cleaned

Cleaning throughout the house: vacuuming, mopping, dusting and wiping surfaces, cleaning bathrooms, wiping windows, etc.

Handling fine furnishings, marble, natural wood, silver polishing, art, and antiques

Tidying all rooms to ensure items are neatly stored and clean

Looking after the plants and flowers throughout the property

Arranging professional cleaning of furnishings as needed

Supplies

Ordering supplies and toiletries as needed

Recording and filing receipts efficiently, managing expenses and the petty cash

Maintaining household inventory

Deliveries

Unpacking and putting away household deliveries

Organizing returns as needed

Laundry & Clothing Care

Managing all the laundry, hand washing, and ironing

Ensuring linens are freshened as needed

Properly folding and organizing drawers and closets

Managing the wardrobes and closets, keeping them organized and neat

Organizing dry cleaning as appropriate, and arranging collections and drop offs

Contractors & Vendors

Greeting guests, couriers and tradesmen at the door and overseeing appointments when necessary

Checking all items in the home are in good working order and reporting problems to the Facilities/Houseman and/or the Property Manager

Facilities/Houseman and Executive Housekeeper Shared Duties

Family Assistance

Monitoring deliveries and arranging returns

Sorting mail, separating junk

Flagging any unexpected visitors when principals are not in residence

Drive the principals as needed; typically, on weekends, when their driver is off (e.g. take to/from the airport or train station, appointments, etc.)

Cooking

Manage household grocery shopping, maintain a fully stocked kitchen and pantry, and ensure items are replenished in a timely manner

Meal prep and cooking healthy meals (breakfast, lunch, and dinner when the family is in-residence); the ability to follow recipes is helpful, and the family is also happy to provide training and guidance as needed

Formal service and table setting and clearing for meals and events; training and guidance will be provided by the family as needed

Provide support during events and family gatherings, including cooking and serving typically for up to 14 guests; for larger gatherings, a Sous Chef and additional event staff will be engaged to assist

Point of Contact

Ensuring excellent property security, serving as a point‐of‐contact in the absence of the Property Manager, for all emergencies and urgent questions

Inventories and Guest Arrival

Purchasing of all perishable and non-perishable items

Preparing living and outdoor spaces to the principals’ specifications for their or guest arrival

Pet Care

Care for their two dogs – feed, walk, take to the groomers and vet visits

Dog sit when the family is traveling

Requirements

Legally able to work within the United States

Proven similar work experience for a HNW private residence

English proficiency

Must have a valid drivers’ license and clean driving record (will have access to a house vehicle for work purposes, and for local errands/some personal use)

Happy to undergo a criminal background check

Discretion and confidentiality

Excellent references required from both current and previous employers

Ability to multitask and prioritize workload

WHEN APPLYING, YOU MUST PROVIDE YOUR RESUME REFLECTING THE APPLICABLE EXPERIENCE OF BOTH CANDIDATES

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